Epilogue (11 years later) -- Look Around, Look Around
The fun thing about never posting on yer blog is that when you finally do go back and read the last entry, it's like opening up a time capsule.
Look at where we are / Look at where we started
- "That Would Be Enough", Hamilton
I've spent the last several hours reading through all of my old posts. First of all, I'm extremely grateful that I didn't just delete this thing; having the opportunity to view snapshot of yourself from 10+ years ago is an amazing gift. I went in expecting to be mortified. I was fully prepared to just cringe my way through this deal, or even give up part of the way through, overwhelmed by shame. But I actually found the experience more eye-opening than anything else.
I started this blog in 2003, just after I graduated college. This was the beginning of a very long, very dark time in my life (also known as "my 20s"). It began when I discovered that the profession I had devoted my educational career to, teaching, wasn't going to work out. Mainly because I hated doing it. It got worse when my girlfriend from college broke up with me (I do not blame her for that at all, for what it's worth). Since I know myself, I can see the darkness between the lines I've written here. Sometimes it was subtle. Other times, less so. Like the song says, "the fact that [I'm] alive is a miracle", honestly. As I continued my digital journey down memory lane, I found myself imagining having a conversation with the guy who wrote this blog. I wanted to tell him a few things:
- You're a very judge-y dude, you know that? That path does not lead to happiness. The saying, "judge not, lest ye be judged" is true on many levels. Viewing the world as a series of binaries, especially when one of them consists of you on one end and your brother on the other, will only cause you more pain.
- You need to be trying more new things. I know this is hard to hear, but playing video games all day will also not lead to happiness. It's okay that you don't want to be a teacher, that just means you're free to try all kinds of other new things! And you don't need to wait for a vision, either. You know the path you're on doesn't have heart in it.
- I'd take it as a personal favor if you kept going to the gym. And maybe cut out some of those carbs, eh?
But, seriously, though ... stick with the gym. I want to have a six pack.
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